It’s spring!

Yet while nature is unabashedly unmasking herself in her full glory, we are still masked, cautious, and reeling from the impact of what’s happened in our world.

Imagine you’re having a conversation with me about how your life has changed since this time last year. You talk about the forces that have impacted you and your loved ones – the pandemic, political upheaval, all the suffering around you. Then you take a breath and go deeper.

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You confess that working from home alongside your partner has been hard for you. It feels like you’ve been living on top of each other. You hardly go out, only see your friends online, and can’t go to the gym or even a movie theater to unplug.

You’re finding it hard to breathe and it feels like there is no escape.

I ask you, “How does that affect your sex life?” You say it’s not good. But then the truth comes out….

You admit it’s never been that good. You’ve never really truly enjoyed sex with your partner, or for that matter, with anyone.

We wonder, has experiencing Covid pushed to the surface all the underlying issues you’ve had about sex that you haven’t wanted to look at? Whereas before, there were a million ways you could get away from this fissure in your relationship, now it’s staring you in the face. You’ve been stuck with yourself, and your partner, for over a year – and there is no getting around it.

Have you gotten to the point where it’s more uncomfortable to deny there is a problem, than it is to finally confess there is one?

Have you come to the realization you have to do something, or your relationship may fall apart?

The good news, and the bad news, is……. all your fears, doubts, and insecurity about sex are being brought up so you can finally face them and heal.

But you don’t have to suffer! There is a way out. You can experience sex in a way that’s beyond anything you have ever imagined!

I know – because I’ve been exactly where you are, and come out the other side.

Here’s my story:

For the first half of my adult life, I didn’t experience sexual pleasure. I enjoyed flirting, making out, and what we used to call ‘foreplay,’ but once my partner moved towards penetration my vagina shut down. No matter what we did, no matter how much lube was used, it was excruciatingly painful. Doctors diagnosed my condition as vaginismus but had no cure; in other words……. I was frigid.

In 2005, as I transitioned through menopause, I took a break from intimate relationships, and went on a journey of self-discovery. I explored all kinds of sexual teachings including Tantra, Orgasmic Meditation, Kink, and Self-Pleasuring.

I learned to relax and surrender into the wisdom of my vulva, and… she woke up!
I mean… she really woke up!

I learned how to circulate orgasmic energy through my whole body, and became infused with turn on. I discovered that a woman’s capacity for sexual pleasure is limitless…. especially after menopause.

After eight years of celibacy, I entered into a relationship with a man – and my whole world changed. My vulva opened like a flower and drew his penis into me.

Today, as a woman in her late sixties, my sexual energy is more vibrant than ever!

Part of my journey was to become trained in sexual healing; I bring that training – and my personal transformation – into my work with couples. I have much compassion and pain in my heart for how partnerships suffer, and know it doesn’t have to be this way.

Imagine how it might feel to…
Sit with your partner, feeling comfortable simply holding their hand,
not terrified, and…. turned on!
Once again feel attracted to your spouse and completely safe to express it.
Convert all that energy you’ve put into avoiding intimacy into
joyful connected sexual play?

Many people don’t know how to seek help, or don’t know who to reach out to. Others think they are too old or too broken to hope for something better, and they just have to make the best of it. That was me, until I got help!

I’m so fired up about transforming our relationship with sexuality, especially for post-menopausal women, that I’m going to write a book about it! 

I invite you to help me out – and receive a free thank you gift.

Would you be willing to take a few minutes to answer a brief survey? It’s completely confidential, and your answers will give me more insight as I prepare to write my book.

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Once you’ve completed the survey, you will receive your gift – a simple somatic practice guided by me in audio and PDF formats. It will show you how to immediately reconnect with your sexual energy, whether you’re alone or with a partner.

With so much love,
Linda